Role Play in Second Life

When I was an apprentice geisha, a maiko at the Yoshiwara Okiya, I was participating in role play altho at the time I didn’t realize this. (huh? yeah, I can be very naive.) After I left the okiya and moved on, I realized that my experiences were very much role play experiences. And even after I left the okiya I practiced many of the skills I’d learned in my training. For example, often I’d dress in my kimonos and greet visitors in my garden with the proper bow and greeting.

That’s me greeting guests at Yordie’s Zen Garden.
 /me bows “konnichiwa dear guest”

This is basically how I met Takamatsu (I’m calling him Tak now). And it left an impression on him, and usually when I saw him visiting the garden I would maintain my character (I’m learning the jargon of RP), and this is how he came to see me. All of this seemed very natural to me because the Yoshiwara Okiya gave me good training. There is much more to Tak’s point of view but he began seeing me as a natural role player even tho I didn’t. hehe

Fast forward to today. When does dressing up in costumes become roleplay? Are DJs at night clubs actually role playing? Does someone have to loose for role play to be role play? Ok, I told Tak, “Yordie Sands combines parts of me as a teenager [you know, playful, curious] and me as a mature woman [like, generally I have enough sense to not do really stupid things… hehe].” Is my human role playing Yordie Sands? Is Zoe Connolly’s Time Traveller series role play or storytelling? Is it role-play or role play or roleplay or Role-Play? /me roles her eyes. All kinds of questions like this have begun to cross my mind.

So, last night I started looking for some definitive information. Here’s what Wikipedia says, “Role-playing refers to the changing of one’s behaviour to assume a role, either unconsciously to fill a social role, or consciously to act out an adopted role.” And they go on to quote Qxford English Dictionary as “”the changing of one’s behavior to fulfill a social role.” Hmmm… ok, I get that. cool. Then I found a link on Headburro Antfarm’s blog to Second Life Roleplay, and found this really even cooler post called “The Role Player’s Creed.” And if you are wondering how vast the role play experience is in SL, take a look at this list of roleplay sims.

Oh yeah, I’m starting to get this whole role play thing now. I’ve even started a new section in the right border of this blog called “Role Play Blogs”. Yes, I now think SL DJs (who are not DJs in real life) are role playing. I believe the same is true of SL shop owners, SL strippers, SL geisha, SL models and many if not most of the roles we adapt in SL. Hey, it includes all the guys who are switching genders too. And if you aren’t a member of a motorcycle gang in real life, and you portray yourself as one in SL, you are roleplaying. hehe

I find this role play thing to be cool, but I know people who won’t. I think you’ll be hearing a lot more about role play in this blog in the future.

About Yordie

I'm a blogger and photographer on WordPress. I'm also author of the sci-fi novel The Temporal Expeditions. I'm an avatar in Second Life and a gamer in Fallout series, Skyrim, and other games.
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8 Responses to Role Play in Second Life

  1. Caleb John says:

    Wow, that is a AWESOME Post. I was reading a post on and this guy is powerful. they call him the Real Estate Drill Sergeant. I know kind of weird, but he is a real Iraqi War Vet and a Successful Real Estate Investor/ Entrepreneur. Anyway, I just want to tell you guys about a straight up Expert not NO SCAM ARTIST GURU. Again, check it out for yourself


  2. Yordie Sands says:

    hmmmm… not sure what happened, but can't find I'll scout around for it. Second link works.


  3. Yordie Sands says:

    Yeah, Zoe is amazing and I'm really enjoying her move toward machinima adventure series. She even offered me a chance to be an extra in one. hehe. Can't wait!


  4. No, thank you for referencing my humble efforts when really it's folks like Zoe that are the real stars 🙂 At the moment I'm very prolific, but I can't keep this up – once the Steal Head story is done, I shall ramp down for a while. And it's taken me a year of hard work to get to this point…


  5. Yordie Sands says:

    hi HB, thanks for the additional info. I have been exploring your blogs and as you probably know, you are very prolific! /me smiles Thanks for pointing me in the right direction.I think i've mentioned to you that I find a lot of inspiration from the work you are doing. Zoe too. It's like a whole new Second Life has opened up for me. And thanks for including me in your awesome list of blogs. 😉


  6. Actually the Roleplaying link doesn't work since I shuffled things about on my blog. Whilst I work up the energy to fix it, here is a link to the main posts I wrote on the subject…


  7. Hi! I'm glad you've found the link. A little over a year ago I, too, was exploring the issues surrounding RP in SL – you can read my thoughts and discussions here ( but I'll be interested to read yours on your blog. I'm now RPing 99% of my SL online tiome now – although my style of RP is mainly written word RP outside SL, with SL being used as the backdrop for my blog-based tales (


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